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0:00:00One of my favorite content creator's,
0:00:01Courtney Johnson.
0:00:02The opportunities do not go to the most
0:00:04qualified. They do not go to the person
0:00:05that's the smartest. They go to the
0:00:07person that's the most visible.
0:00:09What does it take to be seen? Like who
0:00:10has better content? The person that
0:00:12posted 500 times in 1 year or the person
0:00:14that posted 10 times in a year? Because
0:00:15after 500 reps, it can't be bad anymore.
0:00:18I microdose mushrooms and LSD. I think
0:00:21psychedelics are
0:00:22the future. Let's get spicy.
0:00:26All right, everybody. Welcome back to
0:00:27For Your Own Good. I'm Cassidy Warren
0:00:30and I'm here with probably one of my
0:00:31favorite content creators on the
0:00:32internet right now.
0:00:34Courtney Johnson. We're in Austin,
0:00:36Texas. Thank you so much for being here.
0:00:39Thank you. A huge compliment. Wow. How
0:00:41do people become a thought leader? You
0:00:44become a thought leader by establishing
0:00:45top-of-mind awareness. So when somebody
0:00:47thinks of you know, maybe they think of
0:00:50flipping hotels, they think of you. You
0:00:51have the top-of-mind awareness. So when
0:00:53an opportunity, a deal, a person they
0:00:56might want to refer you to, an investor
0:00:57comes up, they're saying, "Oh, I'm
0:00:59referring to Cassidy, right?" Um that's
0:01:02top-of-mind awareness. And the the way
0:01:03we do that is through what I call dark
0:01:05arts of like propaganda, psychological
0:01:08manipulation, and a lot of that is just
0:01:09repetition. Repetition, repetition,
0:01:11repetition. So the more you put your
0:01:13name with your expertise, let's say you
0:01:15do graphic design for startups and your
0:01:17name is Sally. The more it's like Sally,
0:01:20graphic design for startups, tips for
0:01:21startups for their graphic design,
0:01:23here's how to brand your startup. The
0:01:24more that your audience's subconscious
0:01:27is associating. So when your audience
0:01:28comes to that buying or hiring or
0:01:31referring or investing decision, they're
0:01:33immediately going to gravitate towards
0:01:34you cuz psychologically that's the
0:01:36easiest, fastest path. So it's really a
0:01:38game of like psychological manipulation
0:01:40to stay top-of-mind. And there's a lot
0:01:42of data around this that we don't make
0:01:44purchasing decisions based on quality or
0:01:47based on the best branding or any of
0:01:50that. The number one indicator of
0:01:52purchasing behavior is repetition. So
0:01:54it's really just getting your reps in of
0:01:56getting visible online and that starts
0:01:58with creating content, posting,
0:02:00speaking. It could be a book. There's a
0:02:01lot of mediums you can do it, but you
0:02:03got to be consistent and you got to
0:02:06repetition, repetition, repetition,
0:02:08putting yourself out there in front of
0:02:09your target audience. Yeah, I think I've
0:02:11heard you say that top opportunities
0:02:13don't go to the most qualified. They go
0:02:15to the most seen. And so what does it
0:02:17take to be seen? That's super important.
0:02:19Yeah, the opportunities do not go to the
0:02:22most qualified. They do not go to the
0:02:23person that's the smartest or the most
0:02:25talented. They go to the person that's
0:02:27the most visible. So how to be seen,
0:02:30what it takes to be seen is overcoming
0:02:32the fear of being seen. Again, everyone
0:02:35knows this. If I said, "Okay, you need
0:02:36to go build your personal brand, come
0:02:38back in a year." You know you got to
0:02:39post every day or at least a few times a
0:02:41week. Like that's obvious. But we make
0:02:44up these excuses in our head. "Well, I
0:02:45can't because I don't have the right
0:02:46strategy yet." Or "I have to wait until
0:02:49I do my hair or I have this big rebrand
0:02:51or I finally finish my website or I
0:02:52finally put together my speaking reel."
0:02:55Those are all procrastination excuses.
0:02:58You have to start small. You have to
0:03:00build the habit. It's similar to being
0:03:02like, "All right, I want to tone up. I
0:03:03want to lose weight. I want to get fit."
0:03:05And I'm going to wait until my blood
0:03:07work comes back well. Right? You're not
0:03:09going to get your blood work to come
0:03:10back great unless you start slowly,
0:03:12unless you start walking every day, you
0:03:13start putting in the reps. So it's
0:03:15really about habit building and
0:03:16overcoming that fear of being seen by
0:03:18just dipping your toe in, slowly
0:03:20building that habit in a way that feels
0:03:21safe to you because it's so emotional.
0:03:24Yeah, I think all the things that you
0:03:25just described, you're right, it's
0:03:27procrastination. It's perfectionism in
0:03:29disguise as procrastination or vice
0:03:31versa. Uh and you're I love the gym
0:03:35analogy because the gym analogy it the
0:03:37equation is so simple. It's like eat
0:03:39right, go to the gym, and there's more
0:03:41you know, there's more specifics to
0:03:42that. And do that over a long period of
0:03:44time and you're going to get the body
0:03:45that you want or the results that you
0:03:47want, but it's like somebody saying,
0:03:49"I'm going to wait for that gym down the
0:03:50street to open next year before I start
0:03:52going and and get what I want, right?"
0:03:53It's all about the reps. So you talk
0:03:55about people needing to get over cringe
0:03:56mountain uh in terms of posting for
0:03:59personal brand posting on LinkedIn. What
0:04:01is cringe mountain and like what can I
0:04:03do to get over it? Yeah, cringe mountain
0:04:06is a concept created by this creator
0:04:08named Erica Mallett. And if you uh
0:04:10imagine a mountain in front of you.
0:04:13There's a valley on the left and a
0:04:14valley on the right. And the valley on
0:04:16the left is full of all these people
0:04:18that are going to say, "Who do you think
0:04:20you are? What is he doing posting? Oh,
0:04:23she's so cringe. He looks so douchey."
0:04:26Or whatever these uh things that are
0:04:29coming up. And you're climbing up the
0:04:30cringe mountain while all of these
0:04:32trolls or haters are seeing you and
0:04:35judging you. You're getting attacked by
0:04:36cringe monsters. And after you summit
0:04:39the mountain and get over the mountain,
0:04:41then you're in the land of cool. You're
0:04:43with all the other people that went
0:04:44through the cringe and arrived in the
0:04:47land of cool. So the land of cool is
0:04:49anyone that's succeeded in being seen.
0:04:51So the biggest podcaster in the world
0:04:53isn't going to [ __ ] on you for a bad
0:04:56first podcast episode where like the
0:04:58audio it sucks. No, they would say,
0:05:00"Great job. Keep going." The biggest you
0:05:03know, content creator in the world is
0:05:04not going to say, "Oh, your post sucks.
0:05:06You look cringey." No, they would be
0:05:08like, "That's how I started. The only
0:05:10people that are going to talk [ __ ] are
0:05:11the people that are way too afraid to
0:05:13even step a pinky toe on cringe
0:05:15mountain. I've noticed it in my journey,
0:05:18my my my little journey that I've been
0:05:20getting out on, people have been really
0:05:21um
0:05:22supportive in the momentum. And so
0:05:24that's that's the feedback that I give
0:05:25to people that are like afraid of
0:05:26posting or the excuses is like just
0:05:28start doing it, just keep doing it, and
0:05:30you'll see the people that really love
0:05:31you, really trust you, and are there for
0:05:32you. They will reach out and you'll see
0:05:33the momentum build. And I've been able
0:05:35to like that's been real motivation for
0:05:37me to keep going is like the people that
0:05:38are reaching out. Yeah, you'll you'll
0:05:40never get hate from someone doing better
0:05:42than you. Like it's the people that want
0:05:43to be where you're at that is going to
0:05:46be judging you. Yeah, and I think once
0:05:48people realize
0:05:50like cuz that's kind of how the world
0:05:51works. And until you step out on your
0:05:53own and do something for yourself,
0:05:56that's when you really start learning
0:05:57how the world works. And I think someone
0:06:00like you, you're an example of like
0:06:01pulling the curtain back.
0:06:03Uh
0:06:04you talk about everything is fake.
0:06:06Like your job is fake, the world is fake
0:06:08because you create your own way, right?
0:06:10It is. It is fake. It's an it's an
0:06:12agreement. Like it's not real say in the
0:06:14same way money's not real. It's an
0:06:16agreement. It's not like a real tangible
0:06:18thing. Yeah, and you can create your own
0:06:21reality. Um
0:06:23I
0:06:24I saw you mention something about
0:06:28mirroring the circles that you want
0:06:30to infiltrate.
0:06:32What do you mean by that? Yeah. So let's
0:06:35say you have a goal. Your goal is to um
0:06:38fundraise for an investment property,
0:06:41right? You don't want to go to spaces
0:06:43where people their goal is to fundraise
0:06:46for the first time. No, you want to be
0:06:47in circles where it's normalized. Where
0:06:50people have had a lot of projects under
0:06:51their belt. So you want to go where your
0:06:53goal is already normalized. In the gym
0:06:56scenario, you're not going to go to
0:06:57Planet Fitness where a lot of people are
0:07:00overweight and going to pizza Thursdays.
0:07:02You're going to go to like a [ __ ]
0:07:04Pilates studio where everyone is in
0:07:06shape and the goal is already
0:07:07normalized. Another thing that you can
0:07:09do to infiltrate these circles is to
0:07:11identify the qualities in yourself that
0:07:13you have that matches them. Are they
0:07:15really driven? Do you speak in a certain
0:07:18way? Do you have a certain interest that
0:07:19matches theirs? And kind of pull out
0:07:21those qualities of yourselves in those
0:07:23circles. So you don't want to like be
0:07:24fake or change who you are to fit in
0:07:26these circles, but you definitely want
0:07:28to identify what's similar and amplify
0:07:30that that part of yourself. Yeah,
0:07:32exactly. Like proximity is power. Like
0:07:34getting around the right people and and
0:07:37you don't want to like fake it. You
0:07:38don't want to be the person that's
0:07:39laughing at the joke that you don't
0:07:40understand, right? Don't do that, but
0:07:43like what are the success habits? What
0:07:44are the things that they're doing? Like
0:07:46learn the language is something that I
0:07:47say, right? The like the sooner that you
0:07:50can learn the language that everybody's
0:07:51speaking in the circles that you want to
0:07:52be in, the easier it's going to be for
0:07:54you to be able to continue to show up in
0:07:56those circles. Definitely. I think
0:07:57that's great. Can I tell you a really
0:07:59insane but effective exercise I did a
0:08:02few weeks ago? So the Miracle Morning
0:08:04author, I forget his name, but I was at
0:08:07a mastermind and he was there and he was
0:08:09like, "Everyone take out a piece of
0:08:10paper and write down your friends and
0:08:12how much they weigh and um the amount of
0:08:14money they make and then average it."
0:08:17And he's like, "Do you want to be in
0:08:18this physical shape and do you want to
0:08:20make this much money?" Because
0:08:21statistically that's going to be your
0:08:22outcome. So it was kind of a wake-up
0:08:24call for some people to be like, "Oh, I
0:08:25need to put myself in circles where
0:08:27people are challenging me, pushing me,
0:08:29um making me grow a little more." Yeah.
0:08:32So what was like what did you think
0:08:34about what you saw? Yeah, well the
0:08:36weight thing was silly because I have a
0:08:38lot of men in my life and I'm like
0:08:39that's unre- unrelated. Um but the money
0:08:42part definitely definitely contrasting
0:08:45because the money
0:08:47average of the people I spend the most
0:08:48time with was less money than I make. So
0:08:50I'm like, "Oh, statistically my income
0:08:52would go down if I don't surround myself
0:08:54with people that are making more money
0:08:56more often." Yeah, and so with the money
0:08:58cuz you've sort of recently not
0:09:00recently, but you've come into some
0:09:01success just with your content and your
0:09:03personal brand. I saw you post about
0:09:05kind of what you're making, which I love
0:09:06when people are transparent about that.
0:09:08Um
0:09:09there was a video that you watched that
0:09:11changed how you thought about this.
0:09:13There or there's been certain videos
0:09:15that you've watched. Like what is it
0:09:17over your journey
0:09:18that's allowed you to just kind of
0:09:20transition to this mode of like being
0:09:22the best version of yourself and like
0:09:24trying to make as much money as you can
0:09:25to help people as much as you can? The
0:09:27big aha moment for me was watching the
0:09:293-hour long Naval Ravikant how to get
0:09:32rich
0:09:33podcast on YouTube, which is essentially
0:09:36like and if you don't know Naval
0:09:37Ravikant, he's a really awesome
0:09:39investor, founder of AngelList. And he
0:09:41distills his entire money-making and
0:09:44investment thesis into 3 hours. And
0:09:46essentially the it boils down to
0:09:48leverage. Like getting more leverage, as
0:09:50much leverage as you possibly can. And
0:09:52that was the aha moment where I'm like,
0:09:53"Where can I find leverage in my
0:09:56business?" So obviously, biggest thing
0:09:58is my audience. The bigger the audience
0:10:00I have, the more top of funnel, the more
0:10:02the easier it's going to be for me to
0:10:04sell my programs or a product or
0:10:06coaching or whatever it is or just to
0:10:08get people to buy into what I'm
0:10:10passionate about and what I want to, you
0:10:13know, enroll them in.
0:10:15Um so, yeah, that was a huge turning
0:10:17point. So, if you haven't watched that
0:10:18video, I recommend every listener to
0:10:20watch it cuz it's it it made a lot of
0:10:22things click for me. Yeah, I just got
0:10:24through reading um
0:10:26the Almanac. Uh the Almanac of Naval and
0:10:29it was it was really insightful and and
0:10:30one of my coaches is Dan Martell. And as
0:10:33I'm going and reading more, I'm like
0:10:34seeing the threads of all the really
0:10:36successful people like and the things
0:10:38that they say and the common themes and
0:10:40and it's like
0:10:42if you're sitting somewhere wondering
0:10:44why you're not doing better or at a
0:10:46better place in your life, it's like you
0:10:48need to go like figure out what all the
0:10:49most successful people have done, right?
0:10:51Yeah. Um Dan Martell's great, too.
0:10:53That's awesome to have him as a mentor.
0:10:55He's been life-changing for me.
0:10:57Uh yeah, and you know, like up until
0:10:59that point uh before he became my coach,
0:11:01it was like lone wolf.
0:11:03Like thought I could do everything. I
0:11:04used to be an engineer and
0:11:07none of these gurus, quote-unquote
0:11:09gurus, were really resonating with me or
0:11:11I didn't see any value in them. And then
0:11:13Dan came along and I think for a lot of
0:11:15people, his story resonated and like who
0:11:17he is as a person. Like you can be good,
0:11:19you can be a good human and want to make
0:11:21a lot of money and help people and have
0:11:23fun and like all that stuff. Yeah.
0:11:25So. I think that's so important because
0:11:27I another one of the things that clicked
0:11:29in the video was
0:11:31I was really jealous and hating on
0:11:33people that had a lot of wealth. And I'm
0:11:34like, they must have done something bad.
0:11:36And my belief was like keeping me from
0:11:38that. And it is So, not only do you need
0:11:41to surround yourself with people that
0:11:42are making money, but ethical and have
0:11:44good hearts and are leading from the
0:11:46heart. Like that is super super
0:11:48important um and having examples of
0:11:50that. But I think Dan's a great example
0:11:52of that. Yeah. And so,
0:11:55is money good or evil? Yeah, I think
0:11:58money is neutral. It's just an
0:11:59amplifier. It amplifies what already is
0:12:02and it's it
0:12:03transmutes or transforms. It's like a
0:12:06matter of alchemy. You can take money
0:12:08and turn money into You can turn one
0:12:10thing into something else. Like that is
0:12:11how we use money. And I think it's
0:12:14neutral. I think when you see it as
0:12:15neutral and when it doesn't have such a
0:12:16charge for you, like negative or
0:12:18positive, it's a lot easier to work with
0:12:20it, to see it, to even just doing your
0:12:24personal finances, your business
0:12:25finances, it's so much easier to
0:12:27approach it from a level head if you see
0:12:29it as a neutral thing rather than a
0:12:31positive or negative thing. Yeah, I
0:12:33agree. It amplifies who you are as a
0:12:34person. And
0:12:36a lot of times you're not able to
0:12:37receive what you've been desiring until
0:12:39you become the version of yourself
0:12:41that's ready to receive that, right? And
0:12:44so,
0:12:45I wouldn't be able to receive the things
0:12:46that I'm receiving if I was the old
0:12:47version of myself or or it would be
0:12:49amplifying a a negative version of
0:12:51myself that and I would lose it all or
0:12:54something would happen, right? Because
0:12:55I'm not the best version of myself that
0:12:56I can be. Totally. It will trigger you
0:12:59and challenge you and challenge you to
0:13:02level up. Um that is yeah, that's so
0:13:05important. That's so cool. Yeah. I love
0:13:07it. Like basically
0:13:09uh the door's open when you're ready to
0:13:11walk through those doors. I love that
0:13:13you're talking about receiving, too. I
0:13:15got a great piece of advice recently
0:13:17from a friend that was like, Courtney,
0:13:19you are really bad at taking
0:13:20compliments. If you can't take
0:13:21compliments, how are you going to accept
0:13:22money? You need to work on taking
0:13:24compliments. So, next time someone says,
0:13:26"Hey, you look nice today." Don't be
0:13:27like, "No, well, my shirt's from Target
0:13:29and No, no, thank you.
0:13:32Thank you. Yes. Own own the compliment
0:13:34giving. I had This is one of the
0:13:36lightbulb moments for me like a long
0:13:37time ago.
0:13:38Uh I was hanging out with my mom and and
0:13:41some of her friends and
0:13:43they she was this one lady was doing
0:13:45something in the kitchen and I was like,
0:13:47"No, no, no, no, no, I'll do it. Do do
0:13:48do." And she stopped me and she's like,
0:13:51"Do you like doing things for the
0:13:52people?" I was like, "Yeah, I love doing
0:13:53things for other people." She's like,
0:13:55"Well, then you need to let other people
0:13:55do things for you. Like that's how
0:13:57they're showing you love. You need to be
0:13:58able to receive the love that they want
0:13:59to give you." And I was like, "Whoa, I
0:14:01had never thought about it like that
0:14:03before." And then that transitioned like
0:14:05being able to take compliments because
0:14:06we minimize ourselves.
0:14:08We minimize ourselves. Do you know Doja
0:14:11Cat? Yeah. Have you read The Artist's
0:14:13Way? Yeah. Have you? Yes. So good.
0:14:16And I I read it before I knew who Doja
0:14:17Cat was and then I saw that a lot of
0:14:19stuff's coming out about her reading
0:14:20that book and I'm not surprised at all.
0:14:23Um
0:14:23what was your take after reading The
0:14:25Artist's Way?
0:14:27When I was going through The Artist's
0:14:28Way, that was my most successful content
0:14:32few months of my life. It was like
0:14:35million view video after million view
0:14:37video. It was really crazy, which I
0:14:38probably would like to do it again. Um
0:14:42it really framed up I think it's great
0:14:43cuz it's very accessible, but it really
0:14:45frames up how entrepreneurship is art.
0:14:48It is a form of art. And if you're
0:14:50taking an artist's path to
0:14:51entrepreneurship where you're open and
0:14:53receptive to creativity and ideas,
0:14:57like that creativity is going to allow
0:15:00you to beat out everyone else. Not that
0:15:02it's a competition, but you do have
0:15:03competitors and your competitive
0:15:05advantage is creativity. It's being like
0:15:07tapped into whatever that creative field
0:15:10is. It's like tuning into a radio
0:15:12station. Yeah. And it's one of the
0:15:14reasons why I continue to read every
0:15:16single day is that book
0:15:19was really like, "Whoa, I am a creator.
0:15:21My art is design, real estate, sharing
0:15:24whatever." And
0:15:26like I have to think of myself as a
0:15:28content creator that's adding value into
0:15:29the world. And the more that I can tap
0:15:31into that and be attuned with that,
0:15:33the more that I'm going to live my most
0:15:35authentic life. And it's one of the
0:15:37books that I really recommend. And if
0:15:38you don't know Doja Cat's story,
0:15:40like she basically got fired, she uh
0:15:44said, "I'm going to just go create
0:15:45music."
0:15:47She read The Artist's Way. She was in a
0:15:48slump after that. I think she was on
0:15:50like her last dollar. She read The
0:15:51Artist's Way. She implemented everything
0:15:52in The Artist's Way. And then she kept
0:15:54getting featured and featured and
0:15:55featured on songs and songs. And then 5
0:15:57years later, she won the Grammy. In 5
0:15:59years, that's so such a short amount of
0:16:02time. To win a Grammy. To win a Grammy.
0:16:04her art is incredible. And then now
0:16:05people are rediscovering anxiety. Like
0:16:08that was something that happened during
0:16:09COVID that some people knew about, but
0:16:11then now that she's who she is and
0:16:12seeing it, it's really really
0:16:13incredible. Stories like that and people
0:16:15like that really um inspire me. Yeah, I
0:16:17actually think there's only three ways
0:16:19that people succeed. And one is they are
0:16:24born into it. That's a way. Two, they
0:16:27have wounds that actually help them
0:16:30succeed. Maybe they have like
0:16:30narcissistic personality traits. So,
0:16:32maybe they're not a good leader, but
0:16:33they're an effective leader. And that
0:16:36causes them to succeed. Although that
0:16:38usually causes harm to their team. And
0:16:40third is success through healing,
0:16:43self-development, and creativity, which
0:16:45is the path of people I want to be
0:16:47surrounding myself with and I feel like
0:16:49the path that that we're on. Yeah. And
0:16:52so, when you are now putting on your
0:16:54groups and you're bringing people into
0:16:55your world, like do you frame anything
0:16:57up in that way? Like on how to help
0:16:59people understanding like the three ways
0:17:02that we're successful? Definitely,
0:17:03because I share This is why other This
0:17:06is why you may have seen your friend or
0:17:09someone else go from zero to 100
0:17:11overnight. And it could be the three
0:17:13different avenues of success. Like that
0:17:15could be an option. It could be that
0:17:17there's a lot underground. There's this
0:17:19whole iceberg that you haven't seen of
0:17:21them putting the works in repp in. So,
0:17:22it seems like an overnight success, but
0:17:24it's not. Um but I do like to frame up
0:17:27the realisticness of it cuz I think a
0:17:29lot of people are like, "Oh, I'll just
0:17:31start posting today and I'll go viral
0:17:32tomorrow and then my business will take
0:17:33off." That's just not how it works.
0:17:35Again, going back to the fitness
0:17:37example, that's like very crash diet.
0:17:39Mhm. Yeah, very crash diet.
0:17:42So, let's get into LinkedIn a little
0:17:44bit. Uh
0:17:45like what is it about LinkedIn that you
0:17:48kind of honed in on and focused? Like
0:17:49what is it about LinkedIn that is so
0:17:51special? Yeah, LinkedIn is just easy to
0:17:53succeed on. It's a platform that there's
0:17:55a a billion users and these are the
0:17:57billion people that are look they're
0:17:59looking for you. They're looking for a
0:18:01CPA, an executive coach. They're looking
0:18:03for whatever it is that you're doing,
0:18:05actively searching for you. And it's
0:18:08boring. So, if you can just have like a
0:18:09single iota of personality, you're going
0:18:11to stand out. A billion users, less than
0:18:131% of them post regularly, meaning one
0:18:15time per week. So, if you can just start
0:18:17posting on LinkedIn one time per week,
0:18:19you'll rank in the top 1% of a billion
0:18:21users.
0:18:22Very low bar. And again, the content is
0:18:25boring. You just have to be a little
0:18:26interesting. And people are already
0:18:28searching for you. Like I especially if
0:18:31you have a 9-to-5 job, I know you're
0:18:33going on LinkedIn at like 4:00 p.m. cuz
0:18:34you feel like you want to be doing
0:18:36something, but you're not really doing
0:18:37anything and you want to feel
0:18:38productive. Yeah, I see you. And that's
0:18:41how most people spend time on LinkedIn.
0:18:42So, there there's there. There's eyes.
0:18:44They're looking for you. Yeah. It's
0:18:47funny cuz it is like the corporate
0:18:48social media. Yeah. But like to have it
0:18:51up at work is kind of taboo, you know?
0:18:54And so, like what what does posting on
0:18:56LinkedIn look like to be successful?
0:18:58Like you one once a week, but what am I
0:19:00What am I posting? Same thing as other
0:19:03platforms. You don't have to adjust it
0:19:04or change it for LinkedIn. In fact, it's
0:19:06better if you keep it the same. Just
0:19:08repurpose what you're putting on
0:19:09Instagram, blog, a talk, a podcast on
0:19:13LinkedIn.
0:19:14That's the best way. And LinkedIn is
0:19:16also great because it's People are going
0:19:18to do their due diligence when they're
0:19:19investing with you, hiring you, when
0:19:22they're, you know, taking you on as a
0:19:24client, whatever. And they're Googling
0:19:26you and the first thing that comes up is
0:19:27your LinkedIn. Like you got to have a
0:19:28strong LinkedIn profile. It's got to
0:19:30instill trust. People are going to look
0:19:32at your LinkedIn profile for half of a
0:19:33second and their subconscious biases are
0:19:36going to kick in. So, you want to make
0:19:37sure that you're triggering their
0:19:39positive subconscious biases just based
0:19:41on your profile. Yeah, we're looking for
0:19:43a media director right now and uh people
0:19:46submitted their resumes through
0:19:48LinkedIn.
0:19:49And almost none of them included any of
0:19:52their work. And like editing work,
0:19:55reels, like I'm like one person did
0:19:58so far and it was pretty hilarious
0:20:00actually how bad it was. But I was like
0:20:01at least he put a link to his work on
0:20:04there. Like I don't really care about
0:20:05the rest of it, especially with creative
0:20:06roles. Like yes, you know, it's great if
0:20:09you did all this other stuff and you've
0:20:10done things. I don't need you to be
0:20:12actively like creating something right
0:20:14now, but have you created anything and
0:20:16can you provide me any examples of your
0:20:17work, right? We're very visual people.
0:20:19So Yeah, LinkedIn becomes like a living
0:20:21portfolio. So every speaking
0:20:23opportunity, every single webinar you've
0:20:26hosted, everything you've created.
0:20:28Obviously, maybe not everything, but the
0:20:30highlights, post them on your LinkedIn.
0:20:31So if you are applying to that role, you
0:20:33can easily scroll through and get a vibe
0:20:35of like, yeah, I align with this. This
0:20:36is really similar what I'm needing or
0:20:38maybe it's not. But most people just
0:20:39don't have anything on their LinkedIn
0:20:41and it's putting them at such a
0:20:42disadvantage for jobs and gigs and
0:20:44clients. Yeah, cuz I've seen the
0:20:47testimonials and I've been in the group,
0:20:48the Sunrise Content Challenge, but I've
0:20:50seen testimonials of
0:20:51everything that you've done for people
0:20:53and just by posting more, showing up on
0:20:55LinkedIn, the the promotions, the
0:20:57raises, the the speaking gigs, all that.
0:21:00Like so, you know, when you talk about
0:21:02being a thought leader and posting on
0:21:04LinkedIn, like
0:21:06if you have a regular job, well a
0:21:08quote-unquote regular job, you're making
0:21:1130, 50,000 dollars a year, like what is
0:21:14someone How does someone change their
0:21:16mindset or like what is someone supposed
0:21:17to do to go get their first six-figure
0:21:19job? Yeah, easiest way is posting on
0:21:23optimizing your LinkedIn profile, just
0:21:25making it look good, making sure you
0:21:26have every feature built out, and
0:21:27posting one time per week. It doesn't
0:21:29even have to be good because you're
0:21:31going to stand out. The fact that you're
0:21:33going above and beyond and that you have
0:21:35content. Um I would definitely recommend
0:21:38if you're desiring to get your first
0:21:39six-figure job, like got to have the
0:21:41LinkedIn personal brand. Start applying
0:21:44for jobs in places with more of a
0:21:46delusional take on money. So you might
0:21:47want to apply for remote jobs where the
0:21:49HQ is in like SF or New York or, you
0:21:52know, more expensive places. And you
0:21:54want to find a throughline between
0:21:56whatever you're doing now and what
0:21:58you're about to do. For example, I had
0:21:59someone who he was making 40,000
0:22:03dollars, I think, um operating drones
0:22:06for fun, uh doing like uh GIS stuff. And
0:22:10he was posting about it. He was like, I
0:22:11don't think anyone's going to care about
0:22:12this, but ended up getting hired by
0:22:14Amazon and got his first six-figure job
0:22:16just by posting about drones. Like it
0:22:19can seem like something completely
0:22:21unrelated, but again, you don't even
0:22:23have to be doing anything mind-blowing,
0:22:25just post about what you're doing.
0:22:26Somebody is seeking that. Yeah, I think
0:22:28we
0:22:30we forget that what we're doing, like we
0:22:32can share about it and other people care
0:22:33about it.
0:22:34And even if you're not an expert, let's
0:22:35say you want to be an engineer, you just
0:22:37did your coding boot camp, you just
0:22:39finished, you haven't worked a single
0:22:41day. You can learn in public. If you are
0:22:43sharing what you're learning, sharing
0:22:44the YouTube videos that are helping you
0:22:46learn, the book that you're reading,
0:22:48like that is enough. You don't even have
0:22:49to be an expert, you just have to build
0:22:51in public or learn in public.
0:22:53And do you think they should share video
0:22:54or writing or Video is being prioritized
0:22:57right now, but anything, something is
0:22:59better than nothing. Like writing still,
0:23:01if you just want to do text-based posts,
0:23:03great. Like put out something. You want
0:23:06something for people to be able to
0:23:07scroll through uh when they're
0:23:09considering hiring you, working with
0:23:11you, or they're just researching you.
0:23:13Should we be using AI to create these
0:23:16posts or just
0:23:19you know, free wheeling and the free
0:23:20wheeling Yeah, it it definitely I
0:23:22recommend using AI to help you on your
0:23:24content. Um you got to be good at
0:23:26prompting or post edit. Definitely not
0:23:29like a boring write me a LinkedIn post
0:23:31about like don't use a prompt like that.
0:23:33What I like to do is I like to find
0:23:35examples of I pull a couple of examples.
0:23:38I I like Claude over ChatGPT for
0:23:40writing, but put it into GPT, put into
0:23:42Claude, whatever, and say, can you write
0:23:44me a post about this topic? I have these
0:23:47notes and here are some examples. If you
0:23:48give it examples, like that's going to
0:23:50make you great LinkedIn content. Yeah,
0:23:52do you repurpose content? Oh, all the
0:23:55time. If I have a video or a post or a
0:23:57blog that performs well, I will
0:23:59literally schedule it out every quarter
0:24:01for two years. And then I will re-film
0:24:03the same thing just with a little better
0:24:05lighting or maybe a different outfit.
0:24:07And then I will do multiple versions of
0:24:08it. Like I just say the same thing over
0:24:10and over and over. Yeah, but that gets
0:24:12back to your first point of being a
0:24:14thought leader and like associating
0:24:16yourself with like whatever it is that
0:24:17you're trying to be a thought leader on.
0:24:19Yeah, totally. And it's interesting cuz
0:24:21a lot of people will start and be like,
0:24:22okay, I got to pick my niche, but I
0:24:24actually don't think that's how it
0:24:25works. I think that your niche almost
0:24:27chooses you. You start by posting about
0:24:29a lot of different things. You post
0:24:31about, you know, your dog and you post
0:24:33about the books you're reading and your
0:24:35workout and how you like to cook and
0:24:36you're also posting about graphic design
0:24:38and you're posting about psychology and
0:24:40leadership, right? Things are naturally
0:24:43going to emerge. You're naturally going
0:24:44to see patterns and you're naturally
0:24:45going to see, oh, interesting. People
0:24:47love when I talk about leadership and
0:24:49psychology. So now you identified that
0:24:51those are your top performing you're
0:24:53going to post a little bit more about
0:24:54that. Huh, the intersection of
0:24:56leadership and psychology is what people
0:24:57really like. Now I'm going to really
0:24:58hone it hone into that. Now I'm going to
0:25:01post about it more and more and it
0:25:02creates this positive feedback loop
0:25:03where you're looking at your data,
0:25:05seeing what's performing, posting more
0:25:06of that, and re-evaluating. And that's
0:25:08how you find your niche. Like
0:25:10your audience will tell you. What do you
0:25:11say to the people that are listening to
0:25:13what you're saying and like, oh my gosh,
0:25:14this is too much. This is overwhelming.
0:25:16Yeah, I mean, it is over well it is a
0:25:18life change. Like it is a life change
0:25:20and a commitment if you want to step
0:25:22into content creation. And it's not for
0:25:24everyone. Not everybody is interested in
0:25:26it. Not everyone is called to do it. Um
0:25:29but it's risk first reward. Like what's
0:25:32the downside of posting? You don't like
0:25:34it, you outsource it. Okay, great. You
0:25:37fail at it. The only way to fail is to
0:25:39stop, right? You don't have to do it,
0:25:41you can outsource it. Um and the upside,
0:25:43you grow a huge platform. Maybe even not
0:25:46a huge platform, but a really engaged
0:25:47platform of your target audience that
0:25:49you hold their attention. You're able to
0:25:51sell more. You're able to get better
0:25:53partnerships. You're able to have better
0:25:54opportunities. Like that's the upside.
0:25:56When you compare, it's like no question.
0:25:58Yeah, can you talk more about that? Like
0:26:00cuz you I believe, you know, attention
0:26:02is the new currency
0:26:04and having an audience is leverage.
0:26:07And I talk a lot about leverage in real
0:26:09estate as like the
0:26:12like number one benefit of being able to
0:26:13buy an entire asset for a fraction of
0:26:16the price, right? And so
0:26:18how is an audience leverage and how have
0:26:21you used your audience to leverage what
0:26:23you want in life? Yeah, I'll give an
0:26:25example of like email marketing. Let's
0:26:27say I have uh a thousand people on my
0:26:30email list and I know every time I put
0:26:32out an offer,
0:26:3410% are going to convert. Um great. I
0:26:37know that my offer costs X amount of
0:26:38money, so I'm I can easily predict every
0:26:40time I put out an offer, I'm going to
0:26:42make I don't know, a thousand dollars.
0:26:44Now I grew my email list from a thousand
0:26:46people to 10,000 people. I put in no
0:26:48extra effort, no extra push. I just put
0:26:52out the same email, right? That's
0:26:5410X-ing my revenue and it's predictable.
0:26:58So this is true for your social media
0:27:00account. Maybe on LinkedIn you have
0:27:0210,000 connections. Every time you put
0:27:04out an offer, you know 1% are going to
0:27:07convert. When you go from 10,000 to
0:27:08100,000 or 1,000 to 10,000, that's no
0:27:11extra effort and you're getting more
0:27:13sales, more opportunities, more whatever
0:27:15it is that you're seeking um
0:27:17without lifting a finger. Do you make
0:27:19money if you go viral? Yeah, you can. I
0:27:22definitely have made money from going
0:27:24viral, but I don't make the majority of
0:27:26my money from going viral. Going viral,
0:27:28I might get a bonus from the platform
0:27:30and make a few hundred or a few thousand
0:27:31dollars, but the
0:27:33I make the most money on super ultra
0:27:36niche posts that don't even get that
0:27:37many views or likes or comments where
0:27:39I'm calling out a specific pain point
0:27:41and presenting my solution to solve it.
0:27:43I love your videos
0:27:45because they're so
0:27:48I don't know, they're so direct and all
0:27:50it is a lot of your videos are just like
0:27:53you on your on your floor somewhere or
0:27:56you have a screen cap of your notes file
0:27:57behind you. You're green screening with
0:28:00I think you pioneered the micro the
0:28:03spatula microphone or like the varying
0:28:05Like did you get that from somebody or I
0:28:07think you were the one that like really
0:28:08pioneered it and made it stick out.
0:28:09I I didn't get it from anyone. I was
0:28:11just like, what if I start clipping
0:28:12weird things to my microphone? Yeah, I
0:28:14have a one video where I have a piece of
0:28:16garlic Uh-huh.
0:28:17on it.
0:28:18Yeah, there's a paintbrush.
0:28:19Paintbrush and some crazy things.
0:28:21Spatulas. Spatula, a knife. A knife. I'm
0:28:23serious. I think I think you literally
0:28:25pioneered it cuz everyone else started
0:28:26doing it. Yeah, cuz no one wanted to put
0:28:28the mic on their shirt and then they so
0:28:31they just figured I think even your
0:28:33microphone
0:28:35sometimes has like hair on it and like
0:28:37your like So like tell me about that.
0:28:39Tell me about your approach to creating
0:28:41content like that. Yeah, these are
0:28:43visual hooks. They're things that people
0:28:45are seeing that are going to make people
0:28:46comment and that's boosting my video. So
0:28:48that could be my microphone has
0:28:50something weird on it. That could be
0:28:51wearing like a sports hat. I could wear
0:28:53like a cowboy's hat and I know
0:28:55just by wearing a cowboy's hat, people
0:28:57are going to be in my comments being
0:28:58like, you suck, right? Great, thank you.
0:29:00a Dallas Cowboys.
0:29:01Yeah.
0:29:01Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
0:29:02Um I could have maybe a picture behind
0:29:05me of my dog and it's a really cute
0:29:08picture and I know people are going to
0:29:09comment cute dog. I could have something
0:29:11really weird. Like I could be wearing I
0:29:12could be missing an earring. I know
0:29:14people are going to comment be like, did
0:29:15you not put on the other earring this
0:29:16morning? These are all visual cues that
0:29:18boost up your video via the trolls. Like
0:29:21you can use the trolls as tools and like
0:29:23farm them and farm their attention. Farm
0:29:26their negativity into your positivity,
0:29:28into your money. But how do you how do
0:29:31you think of it? Like how do you know or
0:29:33how do you say, oh, this earring trick
0:29:35or the spatula trick or whatever is is
0:29:37going to work? Yeah, I mean, usually I
0:29:40just preemptively think about what the
0:29:42trolls could be upset about and then I
0:29:45lean harder into that. So will the
0:29:47trolls be upset that maybe they say
0:29:49something about like "Oh, easy for you
0:29:51to say. You're like a young woman."
0:29:53Okay, I'm going to doll myself up for
0:29:55this video. Or, you know,
0:29:58you easy for you to say or like you suck
0:30:01because you again like
0:30:03uh you suck because you don't know
0:30:04anything. Again, me wearing a Dallas
0:30:05Cowboys hat, maybe that would lean into
0:30:07that because they would be like you suck
0:30:08even more. So, it's just thinking about
0:30:10what people are going to get upset about
0:30:11and then leaning more into that. Or,
0:30:13it's just trying weird things. I just
0:30:14look around and I'm like what do I have
0:30:15around me? This is a weird bull statue.
0:30:18Can I put that behind me?
0:30:20a It is a weird bull statue.
0:30:22But, I think like even for me and and
0:30:25this happens I think a lot in real
0:30:26estate, the real estate influencers or
0:30:27people that are trying to be a real
0:30:28estate influencer are like how does that
0:30:32apply to my business? How does that even
0:30:34Where's the line between what you're
0:30:36doing and what you're selling? Mhm.
0:30:40Yeah, it doesn't it doesn't apply to
0:30:41your business. That to me that's to
0:30:44boost Well, I guess it indirectly. It's
0:30:46to boost the video so more of my
0:30:48audience will see it. Like I boost it
0:30:50with people who are not in my audience
0:30:52who I know are going to
0:30:55elevate it in the algorithm. Um
0:30:57and then that
0:30:59sees gets more eyes on my offer, on my
0:31:01profile, grows my top of funnel, which
0:31:03is my follower count, which gives me
0:31:05more leverage. Should everyone starting
0:31:08out be thinking like that, like top of
0:31:10funnel, eyeballs, I have a product to
0:31:13sell? Like if they're starting a
0:31:14personal brand? Actually, no. I think
0:31:17when you're starting out you should just
0:31:18think about the habit. Just think about
0:31:19building the habit. You don't have to
0:31:21implement any tricks. You don't have to
0:31:23be crazy. You don't have to have a
0:31:24microphone. You don't have to do any of
0:31:25it. You just have to build the habit and
0:31:27slowly you're going to improve over
0:31:28time. Like who has better content? The
0:31:30person that posted 500 times in 1 year
0:31:32or the person that posted 10 times in a
0:31:34year? The person that posted 500 times
0:31:36because after 500 reps it can't be bad
0:31:38anymore.
0:31:40I hope so. I hope I wouldn't be Yeah,
0:31:42yeah. I think that's Gary Gary V's thing
0:31:44like when he audits people's content
0:31:45he's like oh yeah you posted 500 times
0:31:47maybe you should try
0:31:48try something else. But, yeah there's
0:31:50that study I think it was at Stanford
0:31:52maybe. It was a photography professor
0:31:55who did a study on his students that
0:31:57said okay half of you are going to go
0:31:58take
0:31:59as make the make the perfect photo.
0:32:02You have 500 chances. The other half
0:32:05make the perfect photo, go take the
0:32:07perfect photo, but you only have one
0:32:09chance, right? And then they're all
0:32:10going to get graded on that perfect
0:32:12photo. Guess who got the higher grades,
0:32:14right? The the ones with more reps,
0:32:16right? More reps. So,
0:32:19All right. So, let me ask you selfishly,
0:32:21if you were trying to grow a podcast,
0:32:24what are the things that you would do
0:32:26to help grow that podcast? Mhm.
0:32:29So, clips definitely. That's an easy
0:32:32one, but we're already on video. So, um
0:32:34I'll give you a cheat code that I
0:32:36haven't done, but I've been on a lot of
0:32:37podcasts that do it. We record the
0:32:39podcast and then they have a producer in
0:32:41the corner that's writing down bits and
0:32:43then after we record bits that are a
0:32:46little bit more optimized to the
0:32:47algorithm. And then
0:32:49and then they use that to tease the show
0:32:51rather than the organic clips. And I see
0:32:53that work really well.
0:32:55Maybe I'll start trying that. I'll let
0:32:57you know how that goes. Um and then
0:32:59constantly re-stimulating old episodes.
0:33:03So, maybe doing a week where you're like
0:33:05"This week on my Instagram all I'm
0:33:06talking about is
0:33:08um fundraising. And here's actually this
0:33:11great these two podcast episodes I did
0:33:13about fundraising." And sharing out
0:33:14those clips and be like this is all
0:33:15about fundraising. So, bringing up old
0:33:17episodes can be really helpful. And then
0:33:20finding great guests. And finding great
0:33:22guests. Yeah, which is what I'm trying
0:33:23to do. I'm trying to raise the bar every
0:33:24single time and and set the standard for
0:33:27the next group of guests. Do you know
0:33:28the podcast ladder?
0:33:30No.
0:33:30Oh. Oh, I got to tell you the podcast
0:33:32ladder? So, the podcast ladder is either
0:33:34as a guest or as a host. So, as a host
0:33:37you're bringing on people. Um say So,
0:33:40you're bringing on me on my podcast.
0:33:41I've got like roughly half a million
0:33:43followers across social and you're going
0:33:46to the next person with maybe 750,000
0:33:49followers across social and you say
0:33:51"Hey, I just had Courtney Johnson on."
0:33:53Right? And they're like "Oh, awesome. I
0:33:54know Courtney. Right, we're like in
0:33:56similar I'm a little bit bigger than
0:33:57her, but she's legit enough that I'll
0:33:58come on." Great. And then Sally Sue. She
0:34:01She has 750,000 and then you go "Oh, to
0:34:04the next person. I just had Sally Sue
0:34:06on." To the million person. Then you go
0:34:07to the five million person. And you're
0:34:08slowly climbing the ladder by getting
0:34:10people a little bit bigger and a little
0:34:12bit bigger and using the name
0:34:13recognition of the previous person to
0:34:14get the next biggest person on your
0:34:16podcast. What do colleges and uh
0:34:21traditional marketing agencies not
0:34:23understand about social media?
0:34:26Yeah, colleges, universities, academia,
0:34:28traditional marketing agencies just
0:34:30don't understand human psychology. They
0:34:32don't understand behavior. Like I've
0:34:34worked with so many especially B2B
0:34:36brands where they create an asset for me
0:34:40to post on social and I turn it back to
0:34:42them. I say would you watch this? Would
0:34:44you stop your scrolling to watch this?
0:34:46And they've never even thought about
0:34:48that before. I think that the best
0:34:50content creators, the best marketers are
0:34:51ones that are conscious of their own
0:34:53consumption, how they're being fed. A
0:34:55lot of people are like advertising
0:34:56doesn't work on me. I would never fall
0:34:59for something. Like people have kind of
0:35:00have that mindset ingrained even if they
0:35:02don't know it. So, they're like oh I I
0:35:04don't want to be sold something, right?
0:35:06But, we do want to be sold. We do want
0:35:08our problems to be solved. So, when you
0:35:09bring that to consciousness in yourself,
0:35:11you can implement that in your own
0:35:13content, in your own strategy. And I
0:35:15just think marketing
0:35:17academia and agencies don't do that. And
0:35:20academia is especially worse because
0:35:21they kind of sit around theorizing about
0:35:24marketing rather than actually doing it
0:35:25and trying it and testing it. A lot of
0:35:27marketing professors have never actually
0:35:29had marketing experience. They're just
0:35:31teaching marketing theory. Yeah, cuz
0:35:33this was your background before you
0:35:35started your personal brand, right?
0:35:36Yeah, agencies. And I went to school for
0:35:39like PR, marketing and I didn't learn
0:35:41[ __ ]
0:35:43Except what you don't like. Except what
0:35:45I don't like. I always talk about
0:35:48if you're 18 like go get an
0:35:50apprenticeship. Especially like if you
0:35:51like the trades and you like working
0:35:52with your hands like go get an
0:35:53apprenticeship.
0:35:54But, if you are an entrepreneur or you
0:35:58want to make money and you don't know
0:36:00how, but you're willing to try anything,
0:36:02like spend those four years
0:36:04going and working for people,
0:36:06interning, free work, and like creating
0:36:09a podcast, like creating content, like
0:36:12starting a sales business, like whatever
0:36:13it is like go do that you will learn so
0:36:15much faster. You could go through
0:36:1810 college educations in four years if
0:36:20you like find the right people and the
0:36:22right thing that you're that you're
0:36:23into. Yeah. Yeah, like Gary V always
0:36:26says like if you're young, if you just
0:36:27finished high school go intern for
0:36:29someone for free. And I used to really
0:36:31hate on that. I was like that's such a
0:36:33privileged take because not everyone can
0:36:34work for free. But, now I'm like Gary V
0:36:36you were right. You were right. Like
0:36:38that is like I don't care work night go
0:36:40bartend at night in order to work for
0:36:42someone for free. Now I see all these
0:36:44people I admire and I'm like oh I would
0:36:46pay to work for some people. Yeah.
0:36:48Like I would pay just to be in their
0:36:51circle. Like I wish I would have done
0:36:53that. Yeah. And so, let's talk about the
0:36:55difference between men and women a
0:36:56little bit. Maybe it will get a little
0:36:57heated.
0:36:58Let's get Let's get spicy. Yeah, yeah,
0:37:00yeah. So,
0:37:01what is the difference between men and
0:37:03women in a corporate environment or like
0:37:06what what do women need to think about
0:37:07specifically when they're creating their
0:37:10personal brand or like putting
0:37:11themselves out there?
0:37:12Yeah, a mistake that a lot of women
0:37:15especially young women make in their
0:37:16career is that we see this corporate
0:37:19world that's created by men and we have
0:37:21a lot of men surrounding us giving us
0:37:23advice and not all of that advice works
0:37:26for women.
0:37:27Our hormones are different. Like you
0:37:28guys wake up every day and you can do
0:37:30the same thing every day and be on the
0:37:31same routine and that's how you thrive.
0:37:33Like you can show up and grind. We
0:37:35literally have different hormonal
0:37:38balances every single week of the month.
0:37:41And so, I encourage women to tap into
0:37:43their own unique gifts and cycle sync
0:37:47their work. You know, maybe
0:37:49instead of beating yourself up because
0:37:50you're like oh I'm on my period why do I
0:37:52feel like [ __ ] I'm not working as well
0:37:54as my coworkers. It's like yeah, no
0:37:55[ __ ] Like your body is literally
0:37:57designed to shut down right now. And you
0:38:00know, in your like when you're ovulating
0:38:01your body is designed to like grind and
0:38:03go and be social and be out there. So, I
0:38:05really encourage women to like work with
0:38:07their cycles rather than grinding away
0:38:09like a man. Like you can
0:38:13be as good and you can beat out men, but
0:38:16you can't do it like a man. You can do
0:38:18that like a woman. And that was a huge
0:38:21shift in my business. Like massive
0:38:23massive massive. Took me from like
0:38:26really grinding away to like
0:38:28effortlessly effortlessly making money.
0:38:31That's when I started cycle syncing and
0:38:33realizing that I work different than men
0:38:35and I was going to stop taking advice
0:38:36from every single man around me. Okay.
0:38:38So, what is cycle syncing or how does
0:38:40someone cycle sync? Yeah, it's
0:38:42understanding your cycle, your period,
0:38:44and then understanding your energy
0:38:46levels at each area and designing your
0:38:49work and social life around that. So, it
0:38:52can be as simple as this is That's also
0:38:55getting in tune with your body. Like
0:38:56noticing your body, noticing when you
0:38:59feel energized, when you don't. Like as
0:39:01women we have so much intuitive power.
0:39:04Um and also we have so much of a easier
0:39:07access to that ideas ether than men do.
0:39:11Like we're we got portal in our bodies
0:39:14where men it takes a lot more discipline
0:39:17and work and meditation and whatever to
0:39:18get like women we're already tapped in
0:39:20most of the time. So, it's also like
0:39:22being able to receive that creative
0:39:25those creative sparks, being able to do
0:39:26things that maybe don't seem logical and
0:39:28we're executing on them because we feel
0:39:30the intuitive pull, the emotional
0:39:32intelligence. Like all of these are
0:39:34gifts of women, but if we keep working
0:39:35like men we're going to end up like sick
0:39:37and exhausted and miserable. I think
0:39:39it's a superpower. Yeah. So, how can
0:39:41women tap into their emotional
0:39:43intelligence even more? I would
0:39:44recommend to stop taking advice from men
0:39:48temporarily. A lot of men have great
0:39:49advice, but if you I realized that I had
0:39:51only taken business advice from men. I
0:39:53was only reading productivity books
0:39:55written by men. I opened the first page,
0:39:58it's like, "To my wife, thank you for
0:39:59taking care of the kids, doing the
0:40:00dishes, like cleaning the house." And
0:40:02it's a productivity book. And I'm like,
0:40:04"Oh, okay. So, we're starting there.
0:40:06We're starting with no domestic
0:40:08responsibilities. Great. Okay." That's
0:40:11not where I'm coming from, right? So, I
0:40:13would recommend taking time off from
0:40:15reading books written by men and getting
0:40:17advice from men. Get advice from women,
0:40:18and then integrate what feels right from
0:40:20you. There's going We all have masculine
0:40:22and feminine energies inside of us, and
0:40:24we can lean into whatever based on what
0:40:26we're doing, but take take a little
0:40:28break. Go get Go get advice from from
0:40:30women, from successful women. Yeah. And
0:40:32how do you get more attuned with your
0:40:34body? Awareness, meditation, slowing
0:40:37down.
0:40:38Like
0:40:39I highly recommend slowing down in
0:40:42between meetings, slowing down, taking
0:40:44time for yourself. It's going to seem
0:40:45selfish at first, but that is how you
0:40:48regain your energy. Um that is how you
0:40:51can like show up fully if we're taking
0:40:53care of ourselves. There's this like old
0:40:54adage that says um the spiritual path of
0:40:57a woman is to um
0:41:00is to like find herself, and the
0:41:01spiritual path of a man is to lose
0:41:02himself. Like men need to learn how to
0:41:04be more selfless, women need to learn
0:41:06how to be more selfish. So, I encourage
0:41:08you, be more selfish. And learn
0:41:11Oh my gosh. You must learn to delegate.
0:41:13We have more culturally we have more
0:41:15responsibilities, so more things to
0:41:17delegate. So, learning the skill of
0:41:20delegation, because it is a skill, it's
0:41:21not something you're good at bad or bad
0:41:23at, is something I would recommend like
0:41:25really really leaning into. What's like
0:41:28the first thing women should delegate?
0:41:30Cleaning. Like stop cleaning up after
0:41:33your man.
0:41:36I mean, I still do it sometimes. I still
0:41:37do it sometimes. I got to admit. But I
0:41:41have domestic responsibilities. Like we
0:41:43carry that weight. Even if you're like,
0:41:44"Oh, I'm in a partnership, 50/50." Like,
0:41:46no, you don't need to be deep cleaning
0:41:48the house every week. Also, I see a lot
0:41:50of women clean procrastinate. Oh, well,
0:41:52I I have to clean the house first. I
0:41:54have to do the laundry first, and then I
0:41:56can work on it. No. If Let somebody else
0:41:58do it. Also, "Oh, I don't have the money
0:42:00to do that." Yes, you do. Let's just
0:42:01start with $20 finding somebody for $20
0:42:03an hour, 5 hours a month. That's 100
0:42:05bucks. Anybody listening to this can
0:42:09try that. Can start there, right? And if
0:42:11you want to go even cheaper, find
0:42:13someone in the Philippines for $5 an
0:42:15hour, 5 hours a month. Great, that's 25
0:42:18bucks for digital tasks. Like you can
0:42:20You can do that. Yeah. But it's it's
0:42:22hard. It's hard to separate yourself
0:42:23from these tasks. We feel like
0:42:26we have the responsibility, but you got
0:42:28to be a little selfish. Be like, "I'm
0:42:29not doing that."
0:42:31Cause some fights.
0:42:33Yeah. I'm looking over my wife.
0:42:38Yeah, cuz like why why does anyone
0:42:42have to do those responsibilities? I
0:42:44think
0:42:44Unless you like it. Some people really
0:42:46like it, and it calms them. I think you
0:42:47need to really think about whether you
0:42:49like it or not. I think uh Dan Martell
0:42:51has a story about his dad liking mowing
0:42:53the lawn, right? The this the man chore
0:42:56of like going and mowing the lawn, and
0:42:57asked asked his dad one time, "Well, if
0:42:59you like it so much, why don't you go do
0:43:01the neighbor's yard, right?" Well, no, I
0:43:03don't really want to do it. I don't like
0:43:04it that much. Yeah, cuz you don't
0:43:05actually like it. It's just society has
0:43:07ingrained in us these these roles that
0:43:10we have to play. And I think this
0:43:13We were talking about a little bit of
0:43:14beforehand, but this American dream idea
0:43:17I think permeates into the roles that we
0:43:20all play in the household.
0:43:22And that we feel like we have to
0:43:24actually do the things of cleaning and
0:43:27cooking and grocery shopping and and
0:43:30like What do you think it is that people
0:43:32just can't let go of this stuff?
0:43:36I think that there's also a perception
0:43:39of like people that delegate this stuff
0:43:41are like hoity-toity. These You know, we
0:43:43have the negative money stories starting
0:43:46to come in. Um at least that happened
0:43:48for me. I'm like, "Oh, who am I to be
0:43:50paying someone to do the dishes? Like
0:43:52I'm not this whatever. I feel pride in
0:43:54my physical labor." And great, that's
0:43:57awesome. Again, you can do it if you
0:43:59want to, but it's going to hold you back
0:44:00from Like that's time you could be
0:44:02spending elsewhere, or time you could be
0:44:04rejuvenating yourself. I recommend
0:44:07figuring out what your hourly rate is.
0:44:09Like about how much do you make per
0:44:11hour? Is that $100? Is that $500? Is
0:44:13that $1,000? Delegate anything below
0:44:16that hourly rate, because you are losing
0:44:18money when you are not doing that. Yeah,
0:44:20I think once you understand that that
0:44:22you're losing money, and it's not just
0:44:24losing money, you're also losing time
0:44:26and you're losing energy. I think
0:44:28like when I talk about all this stuff, I
0:44:30I like to talk about it in terms of
0:44:31energy, because we hired a a meal
0:44:34prepper.
0:44:35Honestly, when we started sharing my
0:44:36wife and I started sharing that we hired
0:44:37a meal prepper, that was some of the
0:44:38most engaging content that people People
0:44:41were so curious about a meal prepper.
0:44:43And it it's really funny is like people
0:44:45would message me like, "Oh, yeah, I
0:44:46wanted to I've always wanted to hire a
0:44:48chef." I'm like,
0:44:50you don't It's not a private chef. Like
0:44:52that was a big actually mindset shift
0:44:53was like, "We're not hiring a private
0:44:55chef. We just need someone to go cook
0:44:56our food for us. We need someone to pick
0:44:57up the groceries or order the groceries
0:44:59through the apps, and cook our food for
0:45:01us, and just have it ready so I can
0:45:02microwave it every single day." And
0:45:04whenever when like you remove that thing
0:45:06of like having a private chef in the
0:45:08house, like it sounds so hoity-toity,
0:45:10but no. I need to protect my energy.
0:45:13Every morning I make this little rice
0:45:14cake with peanut butter and jam on it.
0:45:16And it only takes about 5 minutes.
0:45:19But that's a long time. And actually, I
0:45:20got to get three things out. I'm
0:45:22cleaning the spoon. I'm doing all this
0:45:23stuff, and I'm just trying to get out
0:45:24the door to go work out. And I was
0:45:25realizing how frustrated I was getting
0:45:28just to make this one little thing. So,
0:45:30then to now pay somebody to do it all in
0:45:31advance, and I can just grab it, and I
0:45:34can say hi to my wife, I can kiss her,
0:45:35we can go in the car, we can have a nice
0:45:37conversation. Like
0:45:38it changes my energy.
0:45:40And my positive Like everything turns to
0:45:42the positive
0:45:44when you have other people that are
0:45:45doing these things that are better at
0:45:48them than you are, even. So. Yeah, and
0:45:51and that's the thing they're passionate
0:45:52about and excited about. I truly believe
0:45:55in this idea of this dream-based
0:45:58business model, where you are hiring
0:46:00people who are so fired up about that
0:46:02thing that they do, that thing that
0:46:04they're obsessed with. And I do believe
0:46:07there is like an economy where this all
0:46:09settles in this perfect web of living in
0:46:12our zone of genius. That's so funny that
0:46:14you say that, cuz I I 100% like
0:46:17subscribe to that. That
0:46:20if everybody just focused on the thing
0:46:22that gave them the most energy, that lit
0:46:24them up the most, they quit doing things
0:46:25that they didn't like doing, they they
0:46:27were in attuned with their body. And I'm
0:46:29not You don't have to do all these
0:46:30things, but I'm just saying like if I
0:46:32only did the podcast, or if I only did
0:46:35Boutique Hotels, and I paid and
0:46:38delegated everybody else to do
0:46:39everything else for us in our lives, and
0:46:40they were the best in the world at what
0:46:42they did, and that was true for
0:46:44everybody. I mean,
0:46:46I think anger and frustration would go
0:46:48down. I think satisfaction would go up.
0:46:50There would be less divorce. There'd be
0:46:52happier kids. Like if we all just did
0:46:55the thing that we were meant to do, I
0:46:57think it would change everything.
0:46:59Absolutely everything. I totally agree.
0:47:01I think there's a
0:47:03like This is This is stretching it, but
0:47:05I think there's also like an unlimited
0:47:07abundance aspect to that, too. Where if
0:47:10we are really mindful about what our
0:47:12true desires are, not what the world is
0:47:14putting on us, but what we actually
0:47:16want, and we're not in a gluttonous
0:47:18state of consumption, but a really like
0:47:20tailored state of I really know what I
0:47:22like. I really know my tastes. I really
0:47:23know what brings me energy, then I
0:47:25believe there can be an infinite
0:47:27abundance around that. Like sure, you
0:47:29can have all the houses you want, cuz
0:47:31like it takes a lot to maintain a house.
0:47:33It's kind of annoying. Like do Like,
0:47:35"Oh, if if I had unlimited money, I
0:47:36would have 10 billion houses." Would you
0:47:38really? No, you'd probably have like one
0:47:40house and like an apartment or
0:47:41something, right? Like when we And then
0:47:43there's some people who's like, "My
0:47:44dream is not to have a house. My dream
0:47:45is to actually live in a house with 10
0:47:48of my best friends." I believe that it
0:47:50would it would pan out in a perfect web
0:47:53from an abundance standpoint, too. And
0:47:55like desires and material desires. I
0:47:57agree with you. Yeah, and so that kind
0:47:59of plays into the capitalist That's
0:48:00interesting. Yeah.
0:48:02And so how does someone find
0:48:04their true purpose? Oh, I love this
0:48:07question. You can find your true purpose
0:48:09by dreaming without limitations. So, I
0:48:12could ask you, what would you do if I
0:48:14gave you a billion dollars every day
0:48:16that you had to spend? The laws of
0:48:18physics didn't exist. You had access to
0:48:20any person alive or dead you wanted
0:48:23access to. You had unlimited power,
0:48:24unlimited resources. You can space
0:48:27travel. You can do whatever you want.
0:48:29What would your life look like? And most
0:48:31people have never even considered. But
0:48:33when we remove all limitations, that's
0:48:35where your purpose really comes up.
0:48:37That's where you're like, "Oh, well,
0:48:39I would travel more. I would do this. I
0:48:42would start this business. I would
0:48:44rescue dogs." Like whatever you would do
0:48:46without limitations is usually your true
0:48:49path or purpose or North Star. But we're
0:48:52so scared to dream that big. I think
0:48:54Like what do you say to people that are
0:48:56like,
0:48:56"I can't dream that big." I I would ask
0:48:59them just suspend your belief just for
0:49:01the exercise. Just for the Just for fun.
0:49:04Just to try it. Um and then once you
0:49:06have the dream, again, we're suspending
0:49:08our belief where if this is an imaginary
0:49:11world, once you have that dream, maybe
0:49:13you're vision boarding it, you're
0:49:14journaling it, you're writing it down,
0:49:16ask yourself what's stopping you from
0:49:18stepping into that dream tomorrow. Those
0:49:20are your limiting beliefs that are going
0:49:21to come up, and that's what you need to
0:49:22work on. You're going to say, "Oh, I I I
0:49:24don't have enough money, and I'm afraid
0:49:25what my family would think, and I'm
0:49:27afraid to quit my job." All right,
0:49:28money, family, um afraid of quitting
0:49:30job. Go do whatever self-development
0:49:33modality around those three intentions,
0:49:35and you'll be one step closer to your
0:49:36dream.
0:49:37How old are you, Courtney? 29. How do
0:49:39you know all this stuff?
0:49:41I don't know. I've been reading a lot.
0:49:45Yeah, cuz I'm I'm almost 10 years older
0:49:47than you, and it took me till this to
0:49:50like learn and understand all this
0:49:51stuff. Yeah, I don't know. I've done a
0:49:53lot of drugs.
0:49:55That helps.
0:49:57Do you do the drugs and then read also?
0:49:59Um yeah, do drugs, read Oh, I've done a
0:50:02lot of like psychedelics that I feel
0:50:03like give me good um
0:50:06you know, downloads, aha moments. Can
0:50:08you
0:50:09elaborate on any of that at all? Yeah, I
0:50:12Oh, I microdose, which is definitely
0:50:14very helpful for creativity. I microdose
0:50:17mushrooms and LSD depending on the vibe.
0:50:22Um I've done a lot of like mushroom
0:50:24ceremonies, LSD ceremonies, like MDMA,
0:50:28like intentional ceremonies, and it this
0:50:30is where it Austin gets crazy. I've done
0:50:31a lot of intentional psychedelic
0:50:34ceremonies around my business, which is
0:50:36really fun. And especially there's like
0:50:38this secret underground community where
0:50:40there's like business masterminds where
0:50:42you can break, you know, you it breaks
0:50:44down your ego, it puts you into a state
0:50:47of possibilities, and you can really
0:50:48problem-solve and think. I think
0:50:50psychedelics are the future.
0:50:53Okay, so tell me more about the business
0:50:55journey, the psychedelic business
0:50:57journey.
0:50:58Yeah, very similar to the
0:51:00what I told you about dreaming. When
0:51:02you're in that state, you can dream for
0:51:04your business. Um you could dream for
0:51:06your business
0:51:07in a way where you're dropped in and
0:51:10the stories, the societal limitations
0:51:12are off you, and you can really be
0:51:15honest. Like you drop into truth. What's
0:51:17coming through if I'm telling you my
0:51:19dream and I'm like on mushrooms is
0:51:22truth. Like I can't hide. I don't have
0:51:24these um societal stories on me. So I
0:51:27can be really authentic.
0:51:29Um and then there are modalities where
0:51:32And then again, you identify your
0:51:33limiting beliefs, and then there's
0:51:34modalities where you can overcome those
0:51:36limiting beliefs. So that might be
0:51:38breathwork, that might be sound, that
0:51:39might be meditation, that might be like
0:51:41NLP. Um that might be hypnotherapy.
0:51:45Um and then, you know, in these
0:51:47masterminds, you overcome those things.
0:51:50So you So again, you're one step closer
0:51:52to your dream. It's this dream um
0:51:56dream activation model. It's really
0:51:58cool. And so what was your truth?
0:52:01My truth was that I also just the act of
0:52:04speaking your desires in front of other
0:52:07people will get you 40% of the way
0:52:10there. Just saying
0:52:12Oh my god, I desire to be on a massive
0:52:15stage speaking and inspiring young
0:52:17women. Like saying that out loud First
0:52:19time I said that out loud, I was like,
0:52:21do I deserve that? Like Like oh my god,
0:52:23what other people are going to judge me?
0:52:24What do they think about me? Right? Just
0:52:26saying it out loud is is activating
0:52:28that. But what what was on my dream um
0:52:31what has been on my dream is Yeah, it's
0:52:32speaking, inspiring people, especially
0:52:34young women, um writing books, creating
0:52:37content. I'm kind of living my dream,
0:52:39honestly. I was going to I mean, that
0:52:41was going to be my next question is cuz
0:52:42I and I want I do want to hear more
0:52:44about the the ceremony and but you I
0:52:48watched you just recently get done with
0:52:49South by Southwest, which inspired me to
0:52:52put down on my dream, my goal. I saw
0:52:54that they had the Box Media stage, and
0:52:56I'm like, I'm going to be on that stage
0:52:57next year. Yes. Uh you know, I might not
0:52:59be sponsoring it, but I'll be on it. Um
0:53:01but yeah, I've been kind of watching. It
0:53:03seems like you're really living your
0:53:05authentic life in in your zone of
0:53:07genius. What was South by Southwest like
0:53:09for you?
0:53:10South by Southwest the biggest takeaway
0:53:13I had was that you have to pay money to
0:53:16be in these secret spaces, these private
0:53:19masterminds, these groups. This was the
0:53:20first year that I tapped into that
0:53:23world, the one layer deeper, a little
0:53:26bit more underground. These are kind of
0:53:28if you know, you know, invite-only
0:53:31mastermind, workshop, dinner, stuff like
0:53:34that. That I found so much in just
0:53:37meeting people, talking to people.
0:53:38Again, being in the rooms where people
0:53:40have already accomplished my goal, and
0:53:42now I'm like all eyes and ears to
0:53:46you know, pay to do this. Just as you're
0:53:48saying with the masterminds, like it
0:53:49really does work.
0:53:50Yeah, and so what were some of the
0:53:52takeaways that you got from doing that?
0:53:55Yeah, um
0:53:56you know,
0:53:57from the masterminds, no big aha moments
0:54:00in my business, more of like I know that
0:54:02I'm on the right track. It was very much
0:54:03a validation I'm on the right track. Um
0:54:06it was more of a feeling of I have
0:54:09permission to be more audacious because
0:54:11I see everyone around me being more
0:54:13audacious. So, you know, I did learn
0:54:15some things about the creator economy is
0:54:18the future, blah blah blah, stuff like
0:54:20that. But truly, just being surrounded
0:54:22by other people's energies where again,
0:54:24it was normalized to have their level of
0:54:26success, like that's And I I saw so many
0:54:29examples of heart-centered
0:54:30entrepreneurs, and that was really
0:54:32incredible, too. Um I haven't
0:54:35We have a really great community in
0:54:36Austin of like really conscious
0:54:37heart-centered entrepreneurs. Um and not
0:54:39in the way of like
0:54:41you know, you could be a heart-centered
0:54:42entrepreneur, like you got like a booth
0:54:43at the farmers market with like your
0:54:45soaps. Like no, I want to be around
0:54:46people that are like really getting
0:54:47their bag and making massive changes in
0:54:49the world. And yeah, it just affirmed to
0:54:52me that I could be in those spaces.
0:54:54Yeah, I
0:54:56I'm glad you brought this up because I
0:54:57did want to ask you about
0:55:00real estate influencers. The thing that
0:55:01I look at with real estate influencers
0:55:03is a lot of them are so money-focused,
0:55:05and I have a hard time. Like I talk
0:55:06about money and like that kind of brings
0:55:08people in, you know, but
0:55:11like I could probably count all of the
0:55:13top real estate influencers on one hand,
0:55:15and there's probably hundreds of
0:55:16thousands of others trying to do it. But
0:55:18like how do you
0:55:20become a heart-centered real estate
0:55:22influencer or wealth
0:55:25like influencer or person that wants to
0:55:27be in that space? Mhm.
0:55:29Yeah, it's it's leading
0:55:32leading in win-win. Like leading in a
0:55:34way that's going to make everybody
0:55:36win-win-win all across the board. Um and
0:55:39I believe it's tapping into your desires
0:55:41and your dreams. There's a lot of ways
0:55:42to make money. Sure, you can make money
0:55:44doing X thing because the numbers are
0:55:46right, great. But are you actually
0:55:48excited about it? Are you passionate
0:55:49about it? And maybe you're not, but
0:55:51you're really passionate about the
0:55:52outcome it's going to bring you or the
0:55:53community it's going to bring together
0:55:54or some skill you're going to learn from
0:55:56it. But I think we get in this trap,
0:55:58which is very much like
0:56:00I don't know, we get in this trap of
0:56:02like this is a predicted form of
0:56:05revenue, so I'm going to do it just
0:56:06because it brings in money rather than
0:56:08it's something I'm excited about or
0:56:09passionate about. People can feel it.
0:56:11Especially something like a hotel or
0:56:13restaurant, maybe you're buying like
0:56:14small businesses, people can feel if you
0:56:16don't really give a [ __ ] They can feel.
0:56:19They They can feel that energy. Yeah.
0:56:21Yeah, and I've been talking a lot about
0:56:23I don't want to just collect boxes
0:56:25anymore, right? So we bought a lot of
0:56:27houses, and ultimately they're just
0:56:29boxes, and we've figured out how to make
0:56:31money on them. We've done a lot with the
0:56:33design, and I love the design aspect,
0:56:34and now I'm like, I don't want to just
0:56:36collect boxes. I want to go create art
0:56:38and nature. And when I talk about that,
0:56:40I get really passionate. I've I've had
0:56:42the the chance to be in some really
0:56:44incredible places and be inspired by
0:56:46different things,
0:56:47and I feel called to go create that for
0:56:50other people. My desire is to connect
0:56:53people with themselves more than they've
0:56:55ever been connected with themselves
0:56:57before, and connect them with nature
0:56:59more than they've ever connected with
0:57:01nature before. It's amazing.
0:57:02Yeah, so like And when I say that, like
0:57:04yeah, I get I get that reaction, but I I
0:57:06feel that like legit because I didn't
0:57:09realize how little people have
0:57:11experienced nature. Like there's a house
0:57:13that we've stayed at in Joshua Tree.
0:57:15It's called the Boulder House.
0:57:17There was one night, there's a big,
0:57:18amazing window. I love this place cuz
0:57:20you're right up against the rocks.
0:57:22Amazing window, the moon was out, so
0:57:23there was just enough light,
0:57:25and we were laying in bed, and a coyote,
0:57:28like a ghost, walked right by. And it
0:57:30was just a silent, gray ghost of a
0:57:32coyote, and I just absolutely loved it.
0:57:35Um and I love seeing the way that nature
0:57:36interacts, but I I realized I could tell
0:57:38people that story, they'd be like, oh, a
0:57:40coyote. And you know, we're in Tucson,
0:57:44and there's been coyotes in the
0:57:45neighborhood, and there's been these
0:57:47javelinas in the neighborhood, and I
0:57:48love having animals like just roaming
0:57:51around the neighborhood in a city even.
0:57:55Um and so I'm really passionate about
0:57:58like bringing people more connected with
0:58:00themselves, and I think actually
0:58:03boutique hotels or hotels in general
0:58:05that are designed really well
0:58:07are some of the last places that you can
0:58:09go to kind of be outside of yourself and
0:58:13feel that design and feel the care that
0:58:15people put into it. Um and so that's
0:58:17that's sort of what I'm really
0:58:18passionate about. But how do I
0:58:20how do I get that out into my content?
0:58:23How do I
0:58:25like create something that people are
0:58:27interested in, especially when these
0:58:29hotels, they're kind of long cycle. So
0:58:31I'm I'm asking you for consulting advice
0:58:32right now.
0:58:34Like how do I find my voice, and how do
0:58:37I
0:58:38get that out there, and how do I balance
0:58:40the podcast with the real estate stuff
0:58:42and all of that?
0:58:43Yeah, as far as how to
0:58:45get more excitement with the hotel,
0:58:48something I do with my Airbnb is just
0:58:50anytime somebody has an experience that
0:58:52I'm really excited about, I just talk
0:58:54about that experience. Oh my gosh, this
0:58:56is so special. This couple is
0:58:58celebrating their anniversary here. Like
0:59:00I don't even have to post about them. I
0:59:01I just see the message and I make a
0:59:02video. I'm so honored. Like you can get
0:59:06the intel from your manager or whatever,
0:59:08be like, hey, what's going on? Fill me
0:59:09in. And be like, wow, like there is this
0:59:11family that came and they were so
0:59:12excited. Like little personal touches.
0:59:14Do you have a guest book? You should
0:59:15have a guest book.
0:59:16Yeah, yeah, we do. Okay. So bring out
0:59:17stories from the guest book. Like I know
0:59:19that doesn't have anything to do with
0:59:21like
0:59:22the maintenance or the investment or
0:59:24whatever, but it does with the story
0:59:26around it and in in the excitement and
0:59:27the good that you're creating. Like it's
0:59:29so cool because just think of all of the
0:59:32experiences people have had in these
0:59:34play in your homes, too. Like, that you
0:59:37facilitate. Like, that's really
0:59:38incredible. I love it. I love it. Yeah.
0:59:40I just I look at the other influencers
0:59:42that are out there on the real estate
0:59:44side and I'm like, it just for me it
0:59:45doesn't quite resonate. Like, I I look
0:59:47up to them and they've done a lot of
0:59:48really great stuff, but it's it's hard
0:59:50for me to connect the dots to like what
0:59:51I'm doing, what I'm feeling
0:59:53to what what everyone else is doing.
0:59:55Yeah, I would also encourage you just to
0:59:56post about the things you're obsessed
0:59:58with at the moment, even if they're
0:59:59completely unrelated to real estate. I
1:00:01have a client that um is a real estate
1:00:03investor and we really worked on his
1:00:06social of talking more about him just
1:00:08being at the pool with his friends and
1:00:10him like going out to dinner and that's
1:00:12what got people Those are the posts that
1:00:14got people to really trust him and give
1:00:16him $50,000, $100,000
1:00:19um because he's a normal dude, right?
1:00:21He's just talking about things he loves.
1:00:22So, I'd also encourage you post a
1:00:24picture of that
1:00:26coyote or javelina or whatever or share
1:00:29your travels. Like, share and share your
1:00:31your failures, too. Like, share when
1:00:33you're frustrated. When you're sharing
1:00:35the full spectrum of experience, that's
1:00:36when people are really going to trust
1:00:38you and when you have the leverage of an
1:00:40audience but an audience that trusts
1:00:42you, like, that is power. Yeah, I agree
1:00:45with you and I think that gets to like,
1:00:47you don't need the numbers. It's more
1:00:48about the core trust and I feel it if no
1:00:51one's following me on my stories, I post
1:00:53a lot of my stories and um I get a lot
1:00:55of engagement. I just haven't been able
1:00:56to translate that quite to like growth
1:00:59and and all that. So, um but I'm
1:01:01excited. I love doing the podcast. So,
1:01:03Courtney, what's next for you? Cuz like,
1:01:05I was asking about South by Southwest
1:01:07and I saw you speaking on stage. I can
1:01:10kind of feel there's this big momentum
1:01:12and with everything that you're saying,
1:01:13I honestly feel like
1:01:15it's just a matter of time before you're
1:01:16kind of like at the top. Honestly, like,
1:01:19you're going to be household name uh for
1:01:21people, I think. So, what's what's next?
1:01:24Yeah, I'm working on a book right now.
1:01:25It is Oh, I can't say what it's called.
1:01:28But, it my manuscript is due June 1st
1:01:30and it'll be out next um next spring.
1:01:33Very excited about that. It's with a
1:01:35major publisher. It's going to be great.
1:01:37It is more
1:01:38introductory career, really targeted
1:01:40towards Gen Z new grads. Um and then my
1:01:43sunrise content club. So, I actually
1:01:46turned the challenge into a membership.
1:01:48It's $99 a month. We meet every single
1:01:50day on Zoom from 8:00 to 9:00 a.m. I
1:01:52give you a prompt. We work on it
1:01:54together. You post it. So, if you are
1:01:56curious about building the habit of
1:01:57content creation, that's a great place
1:01:59to start. It was extremely valuable. I
1:02:01didn't stop doing it because of anything
1:02:04you did. It was just I wanted to learn
1:02:05and see and it was extremely valuable.
1:02:08Also,
1:02:09uh it inspired me to go create a similar
1:02:11product. Uh I haven't released it yet,
1:02:14but uh there's I'm building it and
1:02:16Co-work something co-working? Uh yeah,
1:02:18basically like a boot camp style like
1:02:21you know, instead of doing a year-long
1:02:23membership or year-long mastermind
1:02:25thing, like, how can we teach you as
1:02:26much as possible in like 2 weeks to go
1:02:28to to go buy uh a boutique hotel, right?
1:02:31That's so cool.
1:02:32Yeah, and then the other thing I'm going
1:02:33to take away from that is your uh your
1:02:35DJ sessions
1:02:37before the
1:02:38uh before the course. Yes. Yeah, I put
1:02:41on music as people are kind of in the
1:02:43waiting room and I think it just sets
1:02:45the tone. It's It's It lifts a little
1:02:47bit, makes a little vibe. It's fun.
1:02:48Yeah. I mean, instead of just having a
1:02:50black blank screen or no cameras off,
1:02:52you are sharing YouTube video of someone
1:02:54DJing in the middle of, you know, a
1:02:55remote location. So, this is why I love
1:02:59meeting people and talking to people
1:03:00like you. Like, you just learn and gain
1:03:01so much stuff that you can implement and
1:03:03apply. Um
1:03:05yeah, and so, Courtney, I thank you so
1:03:07much for being here. This has been like
1:03:08so fantastic. Um I really appreciate you
1:03:11saying yes and sharing all this with
1:03:13everybody. Where can they get a hold of
1:03:14you? I know you mentioned the sunrise
1:03:15content challenge, you're writing your
1:03:16book, but where do you want them to
1:03:18connect with you? Yeah, you can find me
1:03:19on Instagram. Instagram handle is
1:03:21courtlinjohnson
1:03:23and my TikTok is courtney.johnson.
1:03:26My LinkedIn is Courtney Johnson. If you
1:03:28just Google Courtney Johnson social
1:03:30media or personal brand, you'll find all
1:03:32my pages. Courtney Johnson.
1:03:34Courtney Johnson.
1:03:35Yeah. All right, as always everybody, I
1:03:37appreciate you. I love you. This has
1:03:38been for your own good. Peace.