For Your Own Good › Episode 52

Why Women Aren't Attracted To Nice Guys

Episode 52 · Jun 16, 2025 · 1h 29m

About this episode

Why do nice men stay single? Dating coach Kavita breaks down nice guy syndrome , why women aren’t attracted to “nice” men, and how to become a high-value man . We talk about dating apps, Tinder/Hinge/Bumble profile tips, ChatGPT AI prompts for bios, and the Small Talk Challenge to rebuild social momentum.Learn the mindset fixes for fear of rejection, people-pleasing, and how to stop being “too nice” so you don’t end up friendzoned. We also cover porn’s effect on intimacy, communication, exclusivity, and how to date with integrity. Kavita: https://www.instagram.com/dashingdate/ Kassidy: https://www.instagram.com/kassidy.warren/ / LISTEN & WATCH: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-your-o Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1UfWzqSpuL685ReFGn Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@KassidyWarren

Chapters

  1. 00:00 Intro
  2. 00:52 What Makes a High Value Woman
  3. 03:03 Why Men Wait 5-10 Years to Get Help
  4. 09:05 Becoming High Value Through Self Love
  5. 16:12 Life After Loss: Dating While Grieving
  6. 25:40 Creating Dating Momentum
  7. 27:08 Dating Apps: Gift or Curse?
  8. 28:29 how to DM girls
  9. 34:00 using ai(chatgpt) prompts to get girls
  10. 36:44 The Truth About Nice Guy Syndrome
  11. 46:42 When Women Don't Feel Safe
  12. 53:52 Men Ghosting After Date #3
  13. 1:00:01 Does Body Count Matter?
  14. 1:17:13 How Porn Destroys Dating Success

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